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Tara-Nicholle Nelson
Inman News®

Editor’s note: This is the second of a two-part series. Read Part 1: "When it makes sense to keep an underwater home."

Q: At the top of the market, I owned three properties: my first home (in a marginal neighborhood, now about 100 percent upside down), my own residence (a big fixer in a great neighborhood), and a triplex I bought as an investment (an OK neighborhood, needed some work, fully rented, but now upside down by about 30 percent).

When the market turned, I had a couple of bad tenants in my first home and the triplex that set me way back financially, and I was unable to borrow the money I needed to fix the house I lived in. I did a short sale on the fixer and got temporary loan mods on the other two, and moved back into my first home.

The problem is, they’re both so upside-down and don’t seem likely to come back up anything soon … should I just sell everything and start over?

A: Last week, we covered the preliminary step I want you to take with respect to your personal residence, of examining whether the home still works for you, for the most part, as a personal residence, notwithstanding the fact that it’s upside-down.

Many a homeowner makes the wise decision of staying put in an underwater home on the grounds that the home is functioning well as a home for their family, is affordable and looks like it will remain functional on those counts for the foreseeable future.

I’m aware, though, that your situation is complicated by your perception of both of the properties at issue, at least in part, as investments that now seem likely to have outlived the purpose for which you bought them.

I can’t give you a black or white answer in terms of whether you should sell or hold either or both of your properties. But I can give you a set of considerations to factor into your decision. After you evaluate the life-property fit of the home you currently live in, consider these three things:

1. Your options. One of the biggest, most stressful mistakes we make, as humans, is to agonize over decisions without a complete understanding of the full spectrum of options that are available to us. So, educate yourself!

Get online and do your reading, talk with your own lenders to see what options they might have available, and then also talk with local professionals you trust — at the very least, include a real estate broker, a mortgage pro, an attorney and a tax expert on this list. They might know of options you don’t, and they might be able to help you understand the timelines and feasibility associated with each option.

For example, banks seem to be granting short sales at higher rates than before, but they still take a long time, and the exemption from federal income taxation on the debt forgiven via a short sale is currently set to expire at the end of 2012. That might suggest you should list your properties for sale and apply for short-sale approval, stat.

On the other hand, there have been a number of governmental foreclosure relief program developments that might offer help for you, some of which are available only in the hardest-hit states.

The pros can also help you get a deep understanding for all of the tax, credit, financial and even legal implications of all the options available to you. Get the information and professional input you need to fuel a clear, complete understanding of your options before you move forward with your decision-making process.

2. Your values. The decision whether to hold or sell your properties is a hybrid business/personal decision that will impact the overall "after" picture of your life. While you can and should factor in input from professionals and even personal advisers whom you trust are knowledgeable and have your best interests at heart, only you can decide what’s really important to you in a way that drives the ultimate decisions you make.

(And decision really should be decisions, plural, because you could very well create an action plan that involves putting the place on the market as a short-sale listing while you apply for a loan modification, or some other set or sequence of actions.)

So, when I say to factor in your values, I’m simply encouraging you to get clear on what is important to you. Owning the place you live? Tax advantages? Reducing your expenses? Saving up to secure your retirement?

This phase of the process will help you get out of the very common real estate decision trap of doing things for their own sake: owning because ownership is good, or getting out of the market because that’s the supposedly smart thing to do.

Whether you decide to hold, sell, or try to make some other changes to your situation then sell as a backup plan, it’s important that each action step you build into your plan be set in service of some higher life aim, goal or value.

3. Your priorities. Once you do a deep dive into your values and even list them out in writing, one essential truth will quickly become very evident: You can’t (likely) have them all. Early on in this decision process, you’ll need to rank your values and objectives in order of importance, and communicate that to the professionals you look to for advice.

There are trade-offs involved in virtually every real estate decision. For example, you might have to give up some tax benefits of property ownership to cut your costs and save your financial acorns for the winter of retirement.

You might have to sacrifice free time and get a side job to make your real estate obligations if you decide to keep the triplex after the mortgage adjusts (if you’re currently paying only interest, a mortgage adjustment that happens in January might involve a decrease in interest rate but still increase the overall payment if you have to begin paying toward principal).

Only you can know what’s important to you, in your finances and your life, to make the critical decisions you now face. So get clear on your full range of options and the implications thereof, build out a strong sense of your own values and life vision, then prioritize and rank the things that are important to you. Once you have these inputs, your action plan should soon become clear.

Tara-Nicholle Nelson is author of "The Savvy Woman’s Homebuying Handbook" and "Trillion Dollar Women: Use Your Power to Make Buying and Remodeling Decisions." Tara is also the Consumer Ambassador and Educator for real estate listings search site Trulia.com. Ask her a real estate question online or visit her website, www.rethinkrealestate.com.

                                                   

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4 do’s and don’ts for managing your money

by Tara on January 24, 2012

Book Review: ‘The Smartest Money Book You’ll Ever Read: Everything You Need to Know About Growing, Spending and Enjoying Your Money’

Tara-Nicholle Nelson
Inman News®

Book Review
Title: "The Smartest Money Book You’ll Ever Read: Everything You Need to Know About Growing, Spending and Enjoying Your Money"
Author: Daniel R. Solin
Publisher: Perigee, 2011; 304 pages; $25

Today’s post-recession, pro-consumer, anti-bank zeitgeist reflects a dramatic sea change in the world of personal finance advice. Gone are the days when the cable TV pundits whose eyes bulge as they holler hysterics about what, when and whether to buy, sell or hold are taken seriously as anything but entertainment.

All the rules of thumb (e.g., owning a home is good) have been revised and nuanced (e.g., owning a home is good if X, Y and Z, but renting makes more sense if A, B and C).

And there’s also been a sea change in how this advice is delivered. Instead of a once-weekly column in the local paper by a financial writer, these days there is a steady stream — flood, even — of advice-blog posts written by actual financial advisers and delivered in short, simple chunks right-sized for today’s shrunken attention spans.

Daniel R. Solin is one such expert/blogger, and uses the same pithy style, linking to complementary online resources as he does in his advice columns on HuffingtonPost.com and USNews.com in his new book, "The Smartest Money Book You’ll Ever Read: Everything You Need to Know About Growing, Spending and Enjoying Your Money."

Here are four of Solin’s smartest financial do’s and don’ts:

1. Don’t try to play the market. Solin practically pleads with readers not to base their housing or stock market investment decisions on their guesses as to whether the market will rise or fall, and when.

On real estate, Solin says to get aggressive about building equity by making conservative mortgage decisions and extra payments, when possible, rather than trying to sell at the top of the market and buy at the bottom.

And when it comes to the stock market, Solin exhorts readers: "Don’t just do something — stand there!" Solin repeatedly cites historical evidence that simply getting and staying in the market yields better results in the long term than what he calls "hyperactive" investing.

2. Do consider other options to a reverse mortgage to access fast cash in retirement. "Smartest" offers loads of Solin’s advice for retirees whose portfolios, plans and bottom lines have been adversely affected by the recession.

Rather than seeing a costly, legacy-draining reverse mortgage as their first resort for access to large amounts of cash, Solin first cautions retirees to get serious about whether anything but health, food and shelter are truly needs vs. wants (note: helping your children is not a need, in his book) and lists a number of more attractive, but less commonly considered options for accessing cash, including a "regular" home refinance or loan against a 401(k) or cash value life insurance policy.

3. Don’t confuse salespeople for financial advisers. Calling the investment industry "friend and foe," Solin points out the sobering truth that 95 percent of actively managed funds fail to equal or beat their market indexes, yet the fees for investing in actively managed funds tend to be several times more expensive than for index funds, eroding whatever returns investors in active funds do attain.

Solin urges readers to be aware of the difference between an investment broker, who he says is more accurately described as a salesperson; and a financial adviser, who can take a look at your life and your money and help you set goals, pick low-fee investments, rebalance your portfolio, manage your tax exposure and manage your emotions.

Solin recommends that readers put together a trusted team including an estate planning attorney, a certified public accountant (CPA), and fee-only (i.e., not commission-based) investment and insurance advisers.

4. Do shop around. Solin likens our monthly income and expenses to our body’s metabolism. In the same way we gain weight over the years by consuming calories on autopilot, we can lose cash by having our insurance, investment and other expenses auto-debited, making it highly unlikely that we’ll notice when fees and bills rise.

Solin advises checking in on these items at regular intervals, and shopping around to see whether we can find a better deal.

"Smartest" makes a great effort to be comprehensive in terms of covering every area of financial life, but it doesn’t actually go deep enough to be the only book you need. Rather, it is a great start at giving you the rationale for getting motivated to grow up and get serious about your finances, and provides you with a primer and a road map for the work ahead of you.

With 40-plus chapters averaging a couple of pages in length each, "Smartest" feels rather like a collection of Solin’s blog posts; this will leave some readers hungry for more depth and detail, but will certainly appeal to many others who cringe at the density of a more traditional personal finance title.

To its credit, "Smartest" also does a good job of pointing out where you can find tools to execute Solin’s recommendations or learn more about a given subject online, mostly on the wildly popular and free, do-it-yourself money management platform Mint.com.

Generally, "Smartest" is written in plain English — though its approach is a tad bit imbalanced, getting a little bit in the weeds and detailed in the sections of his particular expertise and borderline vague and oversimplified in others.

However, if you are looking to start your proactive financial planning up again, after the trauma of the recession, or if you are just taking control of your finances for the first time, "Smartest" is a smart choice for the starter book you need to put your own personal money train in motion.

Tara-Nicholle Nelson is author of "The Savvy Woman’s Homebuying Handbook" and "Trillion Dollar Women: Use Your Power to Make Buying and Remodeling Decisions." Tara is also the Consumer Ambassador and Educator for real estate listings search site Trulia.com. Ask her a real estate question online or visit her website, www.rethinkrealestate.com.

                                                   

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Stuff underwater homeowners say

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Top 5 tax breaks for homeowners

January 5, 2012

REThink Real Estate Tara-Nicholle NelsonInman News® Q: We bought a house this year! We put $33,000 down and the bank financed $28,000. Can I write this off on my 2011 taxes? How much of it? A: First things first: Congratulations! You’ve become a homeowner, and seem to have done so using an enviable financial arrangement. [...]

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Top 5 tax breaks for homeowners

January 5, 2012

REThink Real Estate Tara-Nicholle NelsonInman News® Q: We bought a house this year! We put $33,000 down and the bank financed $28,000. Can I write this off on my 2011 taxes? How much of it? A: First things first: Congratulations! You’ve become a homeowner, and seem to have done so using an enviable financial arrangement. [...]

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